Auteurs M

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Auteurs waarvan de achternaam met een M begint

 

Urban Aboriginals

 Mains, Geoff, Mark Thompson [introduction], and Robert Pruzan [photography]
Urban Aboriginals : A Celebration of Leathersexuality ; 20th Anniversary Edition
Los Angeles : Daedalus Publishing, 2002
isbn: 1-881943-18-6
A subculture of Gay men participate in a radical form of sexuality and community known as leather. Through intimate forms of encounter, using such tools as pain-pleasure, bondage and role-play, leather can bring a shift of consciousness and a new vision of the self. This innovative book pioneered in sensitively exploring and celebrating leathersexuality. As relevant today as it was written 20 years ago, Urban Aboriginals is an intimate view of the Gay male leather community. Within its pages, author Geoff Mains explores the spiritual, sexual, emotional, cultural and physiological aspects that make this scene one of the most prominent yet misunderstood subcultures in our society.

 

De pijnlijke waarheid

 Marcus, Maria en Ulla Jansz [vertaling]
De pijnlijke waarheid : vrouwen & masochisme [Den Frygtelige sandhed]
Amsterdam : Becht, 1983
isbn: 90-230-0519-8
In de bestaande literatuur over masochisme wordt nauwelijks aandacht besteed aan vrouwen, wat voor Maria Marcus de voornaamste reden was om dit boek te schrijven. In De pijnlijke waarheid benadert zij het probleem van drie kanten: ten eerste beschrijft zij de strijd die zij sinds haar vroege jeugd heeft doorgemaakt ten aanzien van haar eigen masochisme. Ten tweede houdt zij zich grondig bezig met wat er tot nu toe over het fenomeen masochisme werd geschreven. Tenslotte tracht zij als actieve feministe het feitelijk masochisme bij vrouwen te zien in samenhang met de strategie van de vrouwenbeweging. Zij vraagt zich hierbij af waarom er in de klassieke psychoanalyse zo weinig wordt gezegd over het vrouwelijk masochisme, waardoor het lijkt alsof deze geaardheid alleen bij mannen een probleem vormt, maar bij vrouwen als aangeboren wordt beschouwd en dus als een deel van hun wezen.

 

Consensual Spanking

 Markham, Jules
Consensual Spanking
Toronto : Publish and be Damned, 2005
isbn: 1-905277-55-5
Consensual spanking is for adults wishing to indulge in a spanking relationship either for pleasure or as lifestyle choice. Topics include: why people enjoy playing spanking games; how to conduct a spanking; how to receive a spanking; spanking safely; organising a typical spanking session; positions, postures and presentation; use of spanking implements; aspects of role-play; basic control techniques; sensual and erotic forms of spanking; spanking as fore-play; and domestic discipline.

 

Domestic Discipline

 Markham, Jules
Domestic Discipline
Toronto : Adlibbed, 2007
isbn: 1-897312-44-X
Domestic Discipline is a lifestyle choice for couples who want to rebalance their relationship and live in harmony through the application of caring, loving, discipline. This book shows you how to set up, run, and benefit from a disciplinary lifestyle. Topics include: Why do people want a DD lifestyle? The Philosophy and Psychology of DD. Spanking and other forms of discipline. Corrective versus restorative discipline. Orgasm control and sexual focus. Discipline and emotional cycles. Synchronising your cycles. Applying the discipline. Maintenance discipline. Denial and Chastity. Enema discipline. Anal Discipline. DD in the bedroom and DD on the edge.

 

Sensual Roleplay

 Markham, Jules
Sensual Roleplay
Toronto : Spire, 2008
isbn: 1-926635-01-9
Sensual roleplaying is a behaviour between two or more consenting adults in which they take on different roles to act out an erotic fantasy that involves sensation play. In this book, we look behind the scenes of roleplay to develop your ability, skills, and confidence to play in a variety of different scenarios from bedroom flirtation through to more fetish orientated games. Topics include:
  • Roleplay and you
  • How sensations work
  • How to read your partner
  • How to find your sensual triggers
  • How to structure your play
  • Eight universal scenarios
  • Ten key themes
  • Believable character design
  • Overcoming shyness
  • Rules and rituals
  • Teasing and denial
  • Pacing and leading
  • How to talk dirty.

 

How to Capture a Mistress

 Martin, Karen
How to Capture a Mistress
Las Vegas : The Nazca Plains Corporation, 2006
isbn: 1-887895-75-2
How to Capture a Mistress is a light-hearted, but aggressive approach, to mining that rare jewel, a Dominant Lady of quality, and figuring out what to do once you’ve found her. It will take time and dedication, but those special ladies are waiting to treasure, lead, play and discipline as necessary. How to Capture a Mistress addresses such topics as:
  • Basics of Kinky Play
  • Basics of playing with Power
  • Dispelling myths about a Mistress
  • Getting along with a Mistress
  • Retooling your skills
  • Recognizing when she isn’t the Mistress for you
  • Edging above the competition
  • How to advertise
  • Keeping track of progress
  • First Contact
  • Petitions, contracts and collars

 

www.teilemeinelust.de

 Martin, Marek
www.teilemeinelust.de : Virtuelle Unterwerfung im Internet
Bad Bramstedt : SONRRIE, 2007
isbn: 3-936968-07-1
Alles Wissenswerte über virtuele Erotik und Unterwerfung im Internet. Virtueller Sex ist keine Fiktion mehr, sondern pure Internet-"Realität". Immer grösseren Raum nimmt dabei der Bereich der Unterwerfung und Beherrschung ein. Dieses Buch beschreibt, wo im Internet was zu finden ist und was es dabei zu beachten gilt. Die Kür: Umfangreiche Dialoge direkt aus dem Erotik-Chat - vorsicht, Suchtgefahr!

 

The Control Book

 Masters, Peter
The Control Book
Chicago : Rinella Editorial Services, 2006
isbn: 0-940267-09-8
In most, if not all, of BDSM activities there is at least some aspect of control by one partner over the other. That, notes author Peter Masters, is the heart of this book. In spite of that reality, there is little discussion among BDSM players about control and almost no instruction as to its assertion or exercise. The Control Book, therefore, is unique in its approach as a robust guide to understanding, gaining, exercising, maintaining, and using safe, sane, and consensual control over another or experiencing it as a willful submissive. Masters' step-by-step approach has both depth and an experiential basis. He adeptly uses sound psychology and common sense to instruct all those, both dominant and submissive, who are drawn to any kind of dominant/submissive encounter or relationship. In five thorough and informative chapters, Masters presents both food for thought and sure guidance about his subject. Here, finally, is an important and enlightening book on a seldom discussed topic - Control - by a man who is well-practiced in its use.

 

This Curious Human Phenomenon

 Masters, Peter
This Curious Human Phenomenon : An exploration of some uncommonly explored aspects of BDSM
Las Vegas : The Nazca Plains Corporation, 2008
isbn: 1-934625-68-X
The actual mechanics of much of BDSM - otherwise known as S&M or leather - is well-documented in numerous how-to books, various movies, and numerous novels. It is often seen as kinky sex, and is commonly portrayed as involving skin-tight black leather clothing, chains, ropes, and nude or semi-nude participants writhing in delicious erotic ecstasy while being flogged or whipped by domineering 'masters' and 'mistresses'. And maybe this is what it is to many of the people involved. And, in fact, it doesn't really sound half bad. But there's much more to it than this. In reality there are wants, needs, and hungers being explored and satisfied by BDSM participants which often they aren't even aware of themselves. 'This Curious Human Phenomenon' looks under the hood to find out what's really going on, at why people 'do' BDSM, at what makes it so enticing, at what needs it meets, and at why these can't readily be met elsewhere. This is not a how-to book. Instead, it is designed to be a bridge to understanding for people who want to take their BDSM to that mythical 'next step'.

 

Perfect Victim

 McGuire, Christine and Carla Norton
Perfect Victim
London : W.H. Allen, 1990
isbn: 0-352-32561-5
Colleen Stan was a sweet-natured, lively twenty-year-old when she set out to hitchhike from her home in Washington to southern California. Seven years later, she emerged from hell, the victim of a bizarre and chilling crime. Cameron and Janice Hooker had literally made her their slave - and forced her to endure all of Cameron's twisted sexual perversions. During these seven years the Hookers had two children, entertained their friends at home and held down jobs - while Colleen was held captive in a coffin-like box under their bed. This is also the story of Christine McGuire, a young, inexperienced deputy district attorney who prosecuted Cameron Hooker for kidnapping and successfully explained why Colleen - who had numerous chances to escape - stayed captive for so many years.

 

The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage

 Midori
The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
New York : Greenery Press, 2001
isbn: 1-890159-38-7
From ornately decorative to excruciatingly stringent, Japanese rope bondage is an art which has developed over centuries of martial and erotic practice. Now, accomplished Japanese-born educator and practitioner Midori shows step by step how to achieve beautiful and exciting Japanese bondage on a variety of genders and body types. Each chapter starts with a spectacular, tasteful full color photo of the finished bondage pose... then explains with text and line art how to place each rope and knot to achieve the final result. No fancy knots or special expertise are required... all you need is rope, enthusiasm, and the desire to explore the beauty, history and sensuality of one of the Orient's most closely guarded erotic arts!

 

The Toybag Guide To Foot And Shoe Worship

 Midori
The Toybag Guide To Foot And Shoe Worship
Oakland : Greenery Press, 2004
isbn: 1-890159-64-6
A 'workshop in a book' on the delights of feet and footwear, including: why people enjoy playing with feet and shoes; giving and receiving foot massage and worship; playing safely with strong foot stimuli like pain and tickling; basics of shoe and boot care; getting your partner involved in foot play, and more!

 

Wild Side Sex

 Midori
Wild Side Sex : The Book of Kink Educational, Sensual, And Entertaining Essays
Los Angeles : Daedalus Publishing, 2005
isbn: 1-881943-22-4
Tired of standing on the sexual sidelines? Wonder what it's like to be a real kink adventurer? Let the world famous Midori take you by the hand (or by the collar if that's your pleasure) and lead you into the thick of it. This new collection of smoldering wisdom and and frank essays explores the Wilder Side of Sex. This delightfully twisted new volume entertains and titillates as well as educates. Wild Side Sex : The Book of Kink takes erotic adventure to a personal level and exposes some of Midori's most helpful and empowering secrets. Explore if you will, these burning subjects: Is Your Prospect a Proper Pervert'; Fetishism: Sex, Romance, and Ritual; The Heart of Erotic Humiliation; Public Sex; Lust to Bind; Mirror, Mirror; Finding the Power Femme.

 

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns

 Miller, Philip, Molly Devon and William A. Granzig
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns : The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
Fairfield : Mystic Rose Books, 1995
isbn: 0-9645960-0-8
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns will tell you all about sadomasochism. The authors made it light-hearted and fun to read because SM is fun to do. That's why we do it. But fun is only SM's overture; for those who grasp it's message, SM is sexual magic. The right blend of trust, fantasy, and sensuality creates an intensely erotic and deeply intimate stew. We take away our lovers' freedom and lead them to profound liberty. We peer into the dark together, transforming it into light. In these pages you will find clear explanations for the curious, and solid advice, safety measures and steamy suggestions for the adventurous.

 

Erotic Tickling

 Moran, Michael
Erotic Tickling
Oakland : Greenery Press, 2003
isbn: 1-890159-46-8
When you hear a giggle coming from behind a closed door, perhaps the people behind it have discovered the the childlike and yet wondrously adult joys of erotic tickling. From the sweetest of teasing caresses to paroxysms of turned-on writhings, shrieks and giggles, erotic tickling offers a spicy fillip to even a conventional sex life - and a powerful source of erotic overdrive to the adventurous. Between these pages, you'll learn how to provide safe, sweet, erotic stimulus to all your sweetie's soft and tender body parts - using fingers, feathers, fabrics and other easy-to-obtain household items. You can also discover how to enhance the tickling experience with firm but tender bondage…

 

How to Be Kinky

 Morpheous, and kharma [foreword]
How to Be Kinky : A Beginner's Guide to BDSM
San Francisco : Green Candy Press, 2008
isbn: 1-931160-63-5
Geared towards couples and singles, Dominants and submissives, and packed with tips and anecdotes from dozens of fetish world aficionados, this helpfully illustrated, user-friendly primer on getting into kinky play answers some of your most burning questions: What exactly is kink? How do you negotiate kinky play within your current relationship? How can singles safely find a scene? How do you move from online play to the real world? What happens at a fetish event? What is the protocol at a play party? Able to crack a whip as well as a smile, and always focused on communication, fun, and safety, Morpeus shows you how to begin your journey into the exciting world of kinky play.

 

Bound to Be Free

 Moser, Charles, J.J.Madeson [contributor] and B.J. Madeson
Bound to Be Free : The SM Experience
New York : Continuum, 1996
isbn: 0-8264-0889-3
This is the first book ever to explore the phenomenon of sadomasochism from both a clinical and practicing point of view. As the fastest-growing area of sexual behavior in the USA, SM has in recent years received considerable attention from the media - most of it, unfortunately, little more than cheap titillation, without any genuine attempt to understand why people voluntarily participate in sadomasochism. This is the first book to undertake a serious examination of the motivations of those who choose to participate in the sadomasochistic lifestyle. As such, Bound to Be Free is a frank and honest examination of a form of human interaction which its practitioners fervently believe is not only reciprocal and loving, but offers them a way of experiencing erotic pleasure deeper than they would get through any 'conventional' activity. The authors study first-person narratives and case histories and finally lay to rest misperceptions and myths surrounding this surprisingly widely practiced form of sexual interaction.