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Paris, Ilona |
| You Know You Love It : Lessons in Sexual Mischief | |
| New York : Stewart, Tabori and Chang, 2008 | |
| isbn: 1-58479-626-X | |
| For every woman who has felt an erotic thrill when a lover pinned her hands over her head during love-making or necked shamelessly in a public place - or for those of us who want to be that woman - You Know You Love It reveals the way to the kinkier side of pleasure. Dominatrix and practicing therapist Ilona Paris gently, yet firmly, gives us permission to tap into our deepest fantasies and uncover a new dimension of sexual feeling - to discover the world of S&M. These loaded initials pack a wallop, but with Paris as your guide, 'sexual mischief' is playful, fun, and so very hot. | |
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Parker, Christina [= "slavette"] |
| The Path of Service: Guideposts for Excellence (S/M Tech Educational) | |
| Las Vegas : The Nazca Plains Corporation, 2006 | |
| isbn: 1-887895-14-0 | |
| "Five years ago, Master Todd gave me the assignment to write one thought about service or submission a day for five weeks. After one week of writing the thoughts, I asked permission to have the assignment extended indefinitely, since it was proving to be extremely beneficial to me," says slavette. She continued writing for a few more months, always with the intention to pick her notes back up again. Some four years later, slavette was presenting workshops entitled Becoming a Prized Possession. After the workshop, several people asked her if she would send them her notes for her presentation. These notes and her own, personal thoughts on service and submission where the building blocks for this workbook, including: monthly practical project; weekly writing assignments; twice weekly thoughts; general advice; a note to owners, and a final note for slaves. | |
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Passette, Gracie [editor] |
| Sex-Kitten.Net Presents The BDSM Issue | |
| Fargo : Ephemera Bound Publishing, 2005 | |
| isbn: 0-9771003-5-9 | |
| This book is not a primer on the practice of BDSM. There are many fine publications dedicated to the subject of BDSM, should you decide that's how you want to proceed with your sex life. You won't find expert advice or tips such as how to select safety words, tie proper knots, write a slave contract, or make your own leather collar in this text. Instead, this book looks at the issue of BDSM as a legitimate and healthy part of sexual and romantic relationships. Our goal is not to 'get you into BDSM' but rather it is to enlighten, to promote understanding, about BDSM. | |
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Passiana, Sedine |
| So viel mehr : BDSM - mein Weg, meine Erfahrungen, meine Erfüllung | |
| Norderstedt : Books on Demand, 2007 | |
| isbn: 3-8370-0016-8 | |
| Ich bin gefesselt. Und dabei so frei wie sonst nie. Ich knie vor dir. Und bin voller Stolz. Für diesen Moment gehöre ich dir. Ich lasse vollkommen los. Mach mit mir, was du nur willst. Ich werde alles tun, was du verlangst. Denn ich weiß, dass du mich nie verletzen würdest. Ich weiß, dass du auf mich aufpasst. | |
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Pearl, Yadi |
| Like a black rose : Autobiografie einer Domina | |
| Norderstedt : Books on Demand, 2008 | |
| isbn: 3-8334-8805-0 | |
| Yadi Pearl, eine gebürtige Polin widmete ihre Freizeit schon in der Jugend dem Schreiben. Damals waren es noch Gedichte, heute ist es ihre sehr aufregende Autobiografie. Ein lang ersehnter Traum wird nun zur Wirklichkeit. Ihr turbulentes Leben, in dem sie Europa bereiste, brachte sie schliesslich nach Österreich. Sie lebte 10 Jahre in der von ihr so geliebten Stadt Wien. Das Schicksal will es, dass Yadi in Wien eine Edeldomina wird. In diesem Buch beschreibt sie faszinierende Erlebnisse mit interessanten Frauen und Männern. Im wahrsten Sinne des Wortes liegen ihr viele Männer und Frauen zu Füssen. Sie erlebt auch die Gegenseite einer Herrin - Sklavin, in die sie selbst einmal schlüpft. Ein sehr erotisches Abenteuer. Eine leidenschaftliche, gleichgeschlechtliche Erotik ist ihr auch nicht fremd. Yadi besucht ein grosses dominantes Frauenreich inmitten Europas, bei dem viele reiche Männer aus verschiedenen Ländern der Welt Gast sind um sich von ihnen erniedrigen zu lassen. | |
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Phillips, Anita |
| A Defence of Masochism | |
| London : Faber and Faber, 1998 | |
| isbn: 0-571-19042-1 | |
| Sado-masochism is the growing sexual phenomenon of the nineties, a major influence on art, fashion, literature and thought. We all seem to know what sadism is, but masochism is more complicated and more elusive. Who are the masochists, and why are they doing it? Is it a dangerous perversion or a harmless, playful pasttime? How deep is it's grip on the imagination, and how far-reaching? Are women more masochistic than men, or is it the other way round? And why, as any masochist will tell you, is a good sadist so hard to find? A Defence of Masochism draws a wide range of literary, psychoanalytic and cultural sources, from Sacher-Masoch's Venus in Furs to David Lynch films and The Story of O. Anita Phillips suggests that masochism is not only a universal trait - which Freud came close to recognizing - but also a crucial component in our capacity to fantasize and imagine, from infancy into adulthood. She takes issue with aspects of feminism and psychoanalysis, and introduces controversial ideas about perversion and perversity which challenge the legacy of traditional sexology. What emerges is a fresh and striking picture of human longing, curiosity and eroticism.Elegantly writen and highly engaging, this lively, polemical book touches a raw nerve in contemporary culture. | |
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Pita, Maria Isabel |
| Pita Year 1 : The Story of M: A Memoir | |
| New Milford : Magic Carpet Books, 2005 | |
| isbn: 0-9726339-5-2 | |
| In M., Maria Isabel Pita tells the truth about being a beautiful, intelligent and intensely sensual woman who refuses to fall into any politically correct category. She is not a feminist, and yet she is fiercely independent. She is everything but a mindless sex object, yet she is willingly, and happily, a masterful man's love slave. M is erotically submissive and yet also profoundly secure in her own being, and she wrote this account of her ascent into submission for all the women out there who might be confused and frightened by their own contradictory desires just as she was. M is the true story of the author's first shockingly kinky and profoundly instructive year with the man of her dreams. Her vividly detailed story makes it clear we should never feel guilty about daring to make our deepest, darkest longings come true, and serves as living proof that they do. | |
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Pita, Maria Isabel |
| Pita Year 2 : Beauty & Submission | |
| New Milford : Magic Carpet Books, 2004 | |
| isbn: 0-9755331-1-8 | |
| A sex slave is very often a woman who dares to admit to herself exactly what she wants. Absolute submission to love requires a mysterious strength of character that is a far cry from the stereotype of sex slaves as mindless doormats with no self-respect. In a desire to tell the truth and dispel negative stereotypes about the life of a sex slave, Maria Isabel Pita wrote The Story of M : A Memoir, and her intensely erotic life with the man of her dreams continues in this vividly detailed sexual and philosophical account of her second year of training as a slave to het Master and soul mate. | |
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Polhemus, Ted and Housk Randall |
| Rituals of Love | |
| London : Pan Macmillan, 1994 | |
| isbn: 0-330-33093-4 | |
| We are in the midst of a sexual revolution - one that seeks to trow wide floodgates of erotic possibility. While the 'liberation' of the 1960's amounted to little more than casual promiscuity, today's sexual revolution proposes a radical reappraisal of sexuality itself: What is sex? - What is pleasure? - Can sexual experience achieve real ecstasy and even spiritual fulfillment? With photographs and interviews by Housk Randall and a text by Ted Polhelmus, Rituals of Love offers a fascinating glimpse into what has been variously described as 'The Fetish Scene', 'The S/M Scene' and simply 'The Scene' - a phenomenon which, in a decade, has burgeoned into a huge network of nightclubs, magazines and fashion designers throughout Britain, Europe, the US and Japan. But Rituals of Love isn't only a portrait of the sexual underground. It goes beyond this to explore the ways in which sexual experimentation can suggest solutions to the sexual crises which today confront our culture. | |
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Preuss, Rolf, en F.J.P. Heynen [vertaling] |
| Liefdeslessen in woord en beeld : met meer dan 200 kleurenfoto's zonder taboes [Lust mit Genuss] | |
| : , 1988 | |
| isbn: 90-6493-133-X | |
| Rolf Preuss schreef dit boek voor 'gevorderden' en liet de illustraties en vormgeving verzorgen door een ter zake kundige, 'omdat ik weet dat een afbeelding alleen al meer duidelijk kan maken dan duizend woorden'. Gevorderden willen volgens Preuss graag antwoorden op specifieke vragen, zoals: Hebben we met elkaar de juiste partnerkeuze gemaak? - Zijn wij allebei gelukkig en hoe kan ik mijn partner gelukkiger maken? - Genieten anderen meer van sex dan wij en zo ja, hoe komt dat? - Welke trucs en hulpmiddelen worden door moderne sextherapeuten aanbevolen? - Zijn seksuele fantasieën (waaronder bondage, sadisme en masochisme), masturbatie, slippertjes, trio-sex, groepssex en belangstelling voor pornografie met het huwelijk te verenigen? |