Auteurs R

Auteurs waarvan de achternaam met een R begint

 

Becoming a Slave

Rinella, Jack
Becoming a Slave
Chicago : Rinella Editorial Services, 2005
isbn: 0-940267-20-9
Jack Rinella tackles this challenging topic of becoming a slave with his usual careful teaching manner and straight forward talk, laying out a clear process to the transformation that leads to successful voluntary servitude. This book is a 'must read' for the wannabe slave as well as the experienced slave and master.

 

Dictionary of Scene Friendly Terms

Rinella, Jack
The Dictionary of Scene Friendly Terms
Chicago : Rinella Editorial Services, 2008
isbn: 0-940267-13-6
Did you ever wonder what he meant when he used that word at the munch? Did you ever want to know what a certain fetish really was? Have you ever been embarrassed to ask that top or bottom what he was talking about? Finally here's a handy Dictionary of Scene-Friendly Terms. This dictionary contains more than 350 entries and a list of abbrevations.

 

Partners in Power

Rinella, Jack
Partners in Power : Living in Kinky Relationships
Oakland : Greenery Press, 2003
isbn: 1-890159-50-6
Respected scene leader Jack Rinella has carefully explored how BDSM relationships fit into the lives of real people of all genders and orientations. From the research, and his own two decades as an active leatherman, he has assembled this sensible, readable manual about how kinky relationships really work. You'll learn how to decide what you want from a relationship, find partners, distinguish between fantasy and reality, negotiate agreements to accommodate your changing needs and desires, resolve conflicts, and much more.

 

Philosophy In the Dungeon

Rinella, Jack and Dossie Easton [foreword]
Philosophy In the Dungeon, The Magic of Sex & Spirit
Chicago : Rinella Editorial Services, 2006
isbn: 0-940267-10-1
Jack Rinella has always asserted that his BDSM experiences are based in his spirituality and here he brings both his spiritual philosophy and his erotic pleasures together. Philosophy in the Dungeon, The Magic of Sex & Spirit approaches spirituality historically, psychologically, and yes, physically. Jack Rinella's system is holistic, based on extensive study, individualized experience, and common sense. He approaches topics such as prayer, magic, and faith with modest confidence and rescues these words from their stereotypical meaning and understanding. He encourages those looking for more significance in their life to embrace an individualized spiritual path and to shed dogmatic approaches to spirituality that have only too often shamed people into denying their authentic selves. Whether curious about BDSM, seeking answers to the why and how of life, or just interested in reading about alternative sex and faith, Philosophy in the Dungeon promises to give you food for thought as well as ideas for improving your sex life, whether it's in your bedroom or your dungeon.

 

The Master`s Manual

Rinella, Jack
The Master's Manual : A Handbook of Erotic Dominance
San Francisco : Daedalus Publishing, 1994
isbn: 1-881943-03-8
The idea of erotically dominating a partner appeals to many men and women. Unfortunately, there have been few resources from which to learn how to do this in a safe, fun, and responsible way. Now there is The Master's Manual. This book examines various aspects of erotic dominance including SM, safety, sex, erotic power, techniques, and much more. Even if your primary interest is erotic submission rather than dominance, this book will give you insights that will help you lead you to a more fulfilling sexuality. The author speaks in a clear, frank, and nonjudgmental way to anyone with an interest in the erotic dominant/submissive dynamic.

 

The Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps

Rinella, Jack
The Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps
Oakland : Greenery Press, 2004
isbn: 1-890159-55-7
A 'workshop in a book' on clips and clamps, including: clothespins and beyond - types of clips and clamps; where to place your clamps; zippers, weights, nets and other advanced techniques; psychological issues in clamps play; a special section on getting to know and love your tits.

 

The Corporate Dominatrix

Robyn, Lisa
The Corporate Dominatrix : Six Roles to Play to Get Your Way at Work
New York : Simon Spotlight Entertainment, 2007
isbn: 1-4169-4074-X
'The Corporate Dominatrix' exposes the workplace for what it truly is: a social sadomasochistic wonderland - one in which some people have power and some do not, thus creating an unbalanced command-and-control dynamic. Using the psychological tools of the professional dominatrix, Lisa Robyn shows women how to role-play their way to success by employing the tactics of six mistress archetypes: Goddess, Queen, Amazon, Governess, Nurse, and Schoolgirl. For a dominatrix in everyday life, the key to effectiveness lies in being switchable - knowing when to be firm and direct and when to be flexible and accommodating. The Corporate Dominatrix dominates without being domineering and is submissive without being subserviant.

 

Bondage For Sex

Rose, Chanta
Bondage For Sex Volume I
San Francisco ; BDSM Press, 2006
isbn: 0-9777238-0-1
'Adult education' has an entirely new meaning, thanks to this first-of-its-kind guide to bondage in consensual relationships. Authored by renowned bondage expert Chanta Rose, Bondage for Sex: Volume I corrects the many misconceptions about bondage and introduces readers to the intensely stimulating world of kinky sex. With professional, step-by-step instructions and graphic, full color photography, the book allows Chanta Rose to escort her readers to a world of dominance, submission and ultimate sexual pleasure. If you're curious about bondage, or are seriously fantasizing about trying it, don't miss out on one of lovemaking's kinkiest turn-ons.

 

The Advanced Course

Rubel, Robert J.
Master/slave Relations : Communications 401 ; The Advanced Course
Las Vegas : The Nazca Plains Corporation, 2008
isbn: 1-934625-55-8
Make your communication tool kit as complete as your toy bag:
  • Tips for getting on the same page with your partner
  • Methods of communicating during emotional upsets
  • Adding skills for clear and consistent communication
  • Connecting better with your partner
  • Exploring how you think, in order to learn how you communicate
  • Tools for communicating more smoothly with your slave or Master.

This book covers techniques from many disciplines and many communication theorists to produce a practical work, jammed with tips and techniques for improving communication and problem resolution within a relationship - whether a Master/slave or a Dominant/submissive structure. True to his usual style, the author has combined a broad academic knowledge of communications theory with a broad practical knowledge of Master/slave relationships to produce a work that is easily read and filled with the practical applications.

 

Handbook of Theory and Practice

Rubel, Robert J., and Jay Wiseman [foreword]
Master/slave Relations : Handbook of Theory and Practice
Las Vegas : The Nazca Plains Corporation, 2006
isbn: 1-887895-63-9
This book is for Masters. This book is for established Masters who are curious about what someone could possibly write on the subject they know so well. This book is also for those relatively new to the BDSM Lifestyle who are finding themselves called to Mastery. In many ways, this is a companion book to Master/slave protocols; this book covers the more general topic of Master/slave relations - how they often evolve and how to avoid some problems that can crop up in the early stages. The book reviews ways that Master/slave relationships differ from Dominant/submissive or Top/bottom relationships, discusses contracts and collars, and considers various ways of finding a slave and starting such a relationship.

 

Living in Harmony

Rubel, Robert J.
Master/slave Relations : Solutions 402 ; Living in Harmony
Las Vegas : The Nazca Plains Corporation, 2008
isbn: 1-934625-56-6
It's easier to live in harmony when you know yourself and the person you're living with. Not 'know' as in "Why, hi, I'm Bob, glad to know you, want to live with me?" But more like 'know' as in you've spent quality time and effort to figure out how you and your partner think (process information) and react to a wide range of (often unobvious) challenges. Most of this book offers things to think/talk about that may not have occured to you. That's because we're usually blind to the ways we've been brought up; we don't often think about how we think and we don't often challenge our own beliefs. Friction arises from these areas of invisibility. Once the veil is lifted, and once you realize how you've been controlled and influenced by your pesonal upbringing, you're in the enviable position of being empowered to choose to stay that way or to change. All change will affect your relationship. These changes themselves, may well improve your relationship(s) to the point that more heavy-duty 'problem solving' techniques are unneeded.

 

Age Play

Rubel, Robert J.
Power Exchange Books : Age Play
Las Vegas : The Nazca Plains Corporation, 2008
isbn: 1-934625-90-6
Age play is a form of role play enjoyed by many adults worldwide. Age play never involves biological children and is a role play for consenting adults only. As you will read in this issue, there is no "one way" to live out the role one chooses. We have collected a gallery of age players from across the country who cover a wide scope of different orientations and personalities. Each of the authors showcased in this edition will share their story and style with you. It is our desire that those looking for a place to begin their age play journey will find a path of direction that will help them move forward. For those who have started your path, may you gather fresh ideas and outlooks to add to and enhance your age play. Join us as we share our heartfelt joys, heartbreaking sorrows, moments of personal enlightenment, and just plain fun moments through the articles that follow.

 

Art of Slavery

Rubel, Robert J. and slave lara
Power Exchange Books : The Art of Slavery
Las Vegas : The Nazca Plains Corporation, 2008
isbn: 1-934625-74-4
This book, The Art of Slavery, has been compiled by slave lara, who is the owner of the eGroup bearing the same name. Here, you will read a delightful cross-section of thoughts about slavery written by members of her eGroup. In my opinion, this book is a fun and interesting read. I hope you enjoy it as much as I have. This is the first in a series of books, called the Power Exchange Books’ Resource Series. It’s an outgrowth of Power Exchange Magazine, published only in 2007. This series is intended for the entire kink community in all its forms and is intended to give voice to people who make up the many special subcultures and fetishes in this world.

 

Playing With Disabilities

Rubel, Robert J. [series editor] and Angela Stassinopoulos [issue coordinator]
Power Exchange Books : Playing With Disabilities
Las Vegas : The Nazca Plains Corporation, 2007
isbn: 1-934625-48-5
This is a book crammed with information about some of the challenges faced by individuals who wish to nurture their kinky identities and who also have the added challenge of managing the disability(ies) in their lives. The Issue Coordinator – herself a specialist on disability issues – has done a remarkable job finding lucid writers to cover a representative sampling throughout the broad areas of disability. The contributing authors are individuals who use wheelchairs, who are blind or deaf, who have multiple disabilities, who have clinically diagnosed psychiatric illness, or adult-onset health diagnoses. They are active BDSM lifestylers who passionately describe the challenges that accompany living and playing with disability, and who demonstrate a point of view that is a unique asset to our community.

 

Protocol Handbook for the Leather Slave

Rubel, Robert J.
Protocol Handbook for the Leather Slave : Theory and Practice
Las Vegas : The Nazca Plains Corporation, 2006
isbn: 1-887895-15-9
This book is intended to provide examples, ideas and discussion points to those who follow - or would like to follow - the calling to live in a modern-day Master/slave relationship. More than a general book about rules, rituals, personal behavior, and etiquette, this book offers a glimpse into the complex world of protocols set in the context of a Leather Master/slave relationship. This book offers a look into a completely different subculture that exists almost like a 'parallel universe' in most large cities in America. This book explains, demonstrates, and discusses a wide range of behaviors that a slave can use to provide service and show obedience to his or her Master.

 

A Variety of Views

Rubel, Robert J., and L.C. Morgynn [issue coordinator]
Protocols : A Variety of Views
Las Vegas : The Nazca Plains Corporation, 2008
isbn: 1-934625-87-6
Not all Families use protocols. Those that do use protocols in their relationship range from using only a few protocols to having an extensive Protocol Manual written out for the slave's use. Those who use common Leather protocols may use them slightly differently, based on the part of the country in which they live. One often hears about "East Coast versus West Coast" styles of protocols. Also, many Masters or Doms make up their own protocols as befits that particular relationship. All this is good. This issue contains articles from Masters and slaves that represent divergent views. More importantly, many of these articles discuss the philosophical basis for the way protocols have developed within their Families. The reason that protocols vary so much between Families is that protocols serve a few important aspects of a power exchange or authority exchange relationship.

 

Handbook for the Female Slave

Rubel, Robert J.
Protocols: Handbook for the Female Slave
Las Vegas : The Nazca Plains Corporation, 2006
isbn: 1-887895-12-4
More than a book of Protocols, this book looks into the BDSM Leather subculture as a whole. Protocols demonstrates devotion to a Master expressed through the slave´s service. This book is a guide enabling a slave to express love for her Master through actions.

 

Sexcitement

Russell, Lynn Paula
Sexcitement : The Art of Love
London : Erotic Print Society, 2002
isbn: 1-898998-54-X
Why do some people get an erotic charge out of actions that would never occur to us as pleasurable at all? Being tied naked to a whipping stool in a dungeon while your 'mistress' flogs you; lying in a bath while someone urinates on you; anal sex with a strap-on dildo - there's always something remaining outside our range of sexual tastes. However, some of these activities may secretly intrigue us, although we have never had the courage to mention them to our partner or indulge in them. Sexual information is wide-spread nowadays, but even so there are still pockets of ignorance around certain taboo subjects unless you can find them tucked away in specialist magazines. In Sexcitement, Lynn Paula Russell tries to describe a wide variety of erotic activities step by step, combining highly personal accounts and insights with useful information and suggestions. No one will use the word 'perversion' in this book, for we are looking at the full range of erotic pleasures without prejudice. Whatever is done in the security of a loving relationship cannot be either obscene or perverted, and will not put you at risk if you are rigorously aware of each other's health and safety.