Auteurs S

Auteurs waarvan de achternaam begint met een S

 

It's Not About the Whip

Sadie, Sensuous
It's Not About the Whip
Victoria : Trafford, 2003
isbn: 1-4120-0183-8
This book is a collection of columns that Sensuous Sadie wrote over the last few years as she recovered from a very painful breakup. The first section includes her personal reflections about being a Submissive, a Switch, and yes, a Dominant too. The second section includes the writing she has done in some unconventional, and sometimes controversial areas. The third section, 'dating in the scene' follows the somewhat entertaining stories of her dating life. The fourth section, 'diary of a journalist submissive', is the story about her experience at House Mermaid. In the fifth section she writes about how the BDSM community has changed her views about our place in society. Finally, she wrote about being 'Sensuous Sadie', and how being a leader and a writer has changed her life.

 

Spiritual Transformation through BDSM

Sadie, Sensuous [editor]
Spiritual Transformation through BDSM
Fargo : Ephemera Bound Publishing, 2007
isbn: 0-9790067-7-5
Spiritual Transformation through BDSM does not presume to be a step-by-step manual for obtaining enlightenment through bondage, domination, sadism, or masochism, although it provides enough for the reader to plot their own path. At once both scholarly and approachable, this book is a compilation of dozens of interviews, articles, anecdotes, and tales, by the today's leaders in the BDSM community. By reading Spiritual Transformation, practicioners of BDSM are encouraged to consider the religious and spiritual importance of their devotion.

 

Unter Peitsche und Stock

Sadler, Martina
Unter Peitsche und Stock : Erlebnisberichte zum Thema englische Erziehung
Flensburg : Carl Stephenson, 2008
isbn: 3-7986-0273-5
Authentische Erlebnisberichte aus älterer und jüngerer Vergangenheit, von Martina Sadler bearbeitet und kommentiert, beschreiben eindrucksvoll die traditionellen Straf- und Erziehungsmethoden, aber auch deren Entartungen. Zudem eröffnen sich dem Leser Einblicke in verborgene Motive und psychologische Hintergründe, die im Zusammenhang mit dem Thema 'körperliche Züchtigung' eine wichtige Rolle spielen.

 

Coming To Power

Samois, and Katherine Davis [introduction]
Coming To Power : Writing and Graphics on Lesbian S/M ; 3rd Edition, Revised and Updated
Boston : Alyson Publications, 1987
isbn: 0-932870-28-7
Coming To Power is a book about feminism, BDSM, and being a lesbian. Katherine Davis [Samois, 1981]: "Coming To Power is a statement, a confrontation, and a challenge. It calls for a re-evaluation of existing lesbian-feminist ethics, saying: 'You must own your illegitimate children.' We [Samois] offer you this document and hope that you will use it well, for personal exploration and as a tool for dialogue."

 

Slave to a Stranger

Saunders, Vera
Slave to a Stranger
London : Janus Publishing, 2000
isbn: 1-85756-428-6
Newly divorced and wealthy, the narrator is drawn to Jan, her mysterious blind date. Revelling in the kinky sex, deaf to all the warning bells and blind to the bruises, she is soon hooked into an all consuming passion - an obedient, adoring sex slave. Until one day, when she decides to throw away the riding crop, her life changes forever... Humiliation follows teror, obsession follows humiliation, violence follows obsession but can she ever release herself from the dreadful power of the intimate stranger? Explicit, truthful and erotic, Slave to a Stranger is the author's true story of adultery, sexual dependancy and Sado-masochism - and what all these can do to a woman's life.

 

Bondage

Schmitt, Tom
Bondage : Ausstieg aus der Selbstkontrolle ; Ein Handbuch; 4. Auflage
Hamburg : Männerschwarm, 2006
isbn: 3-935596-07-3
Detaillierte, durchgehend bebilderte Beschreibungen vom Materialien und Techniken; Sensibele Einführung in die psycho-sexuellen Rahmenbedingen; solide Hinweise zum Thema Sicherheit und ausf"hrlicher Anhang mit Internet-Adressen, Buchempfehlungen und mehr.

 

Erotic Power

Scott, Gini Graham
Erotic Power : An Exploration of Dominance & Submission
Toronto : Citadel Trade, 1997
isbn: 0-8065-1851-0
Have the nineties seduced mainstream culture into the "dark side" of sexuality? How have rubber and leather clothing made it out of the back rooms of sex shops and into your local mall? In the early eighties, Gini Graham Scott explored the underworld of human sexuality. She has recently returned to this world to examine the growing popularity of dominance and submission. Not surprisingly, she discovers that a greater openness to sexuality has led to the emergence of over twenty million devotees of the D&S scene today. Scott explores the areas of sadomasochism and bondage and discipline as both a witness and a practitioner. In Erotic Power, she interviews mistresses, their subjects, and various group participants in D&S. Her research covers her personal experiences as a 'mistress in training', a survey of the top clubs, and references and resources for those who desire to know more.

 

Mistress Ruby Ties It Together

Shamburg, Robin
Mistress Ruby Ties It Together : A Dominatrix Takes On Sex, Power, and the Secret Lives of Upstanding Citizens
New York : AtRandom, 2001
isbn: 0-8129-9154-0
Equal parts memoir, how-to and social satire, Mistress Ruby Ties it Together is a guided tour through New York's S&M underworld, where the author worked as a professional dominatrix to subsidize her writing career. As Mistress Ruby, this former Catholic school girl took confessions from some of the country's most powerful men. Within the sanctity of the dungeon, they revealed to her their darkest lusts, fears and frailties, as well as their sincere desire to connect with the opposite sex. Each of these provocative essays provides an insider's view of human deviation; together, they present a startling portrait of our everyday selves.

 

Puppy Papers

Sharon, Puppy, and Steven Toushin
Puppy Papers 01 : A Woman's Life and Journey into BDSM
Chicago : Wells Street Publishing, 2004
isbn: 1-884760-03-1
This unique and honest story traces one middle American woman's journey into kinky sex. After 18 years of trying to be the perfect wife, mother, church member, friend, and professional, she realizes something big is missing in her life. With a few strokes of the keyboard, she stumbles into the amazing sexual hunting grounds of the Internet, falling with eyes open into the world of adult personal ads. As only a puppy can, she eagerly jumps into BDSM on her first real-time encounter, meeting the man who becomes her first master. With that initial taste of kinky sex, a desire that laid dormant for many years came alive so strong that there was no going back. Beginning with the man she first called master, puppy embarked upon a search for her true Master. This book is the result of six months of e-mail correspondence with her current Master, that began as He desired to know her better. Since puppy is a quiet woman around her Master, it was only through the written word that her story emerged, eventually taking on a life of its own. puppy's story includes memories of herself as a little girl learning about her body, her sexual awakenings in her teen years, and the maturing of her libidinal desires. There is no conflict or guilt in puppy's story, just an overwhelming desire for completeness.

 

Puppy Papers

Sharon, Puppy, and Steven Toushin
Puppy Papers 02 : Puppy's Tales ; A true story of a slave and her Master in the forbidden world of BDSM
Chicago : Wells Street Publishing, 2007
isbn: 1-884760-06-6
Puppy's Tales is a true, honest, bold, exiting, and bizarre exposure of two people's lives in the forbidden world of sexual sadomasochism and domination / submission. Puppy's Tales is the continuation of Steven Toushin and puppy sharon's BDSM relationship as it evolves from domination and submission to a contracted Master / slave relationship. On many levels, their story offers a unique glimpse into the complex characterand nature of a seemingly avarage woman from Middle America.

 

Kinkorama

Sheppard, Simon
Kinkorama : Dispatches from the Front Lines of Perversion
Los Angeles : Alyson Books, 2003
isbn: 1-55583-634-8
Renowned erotic storyteller Simon Sheppard turns to nonfiction in this wild ride through the kinkier regions of queer lust. Part travelogue, part tell-all, Kinkorama is an everyman's journey through dungeons and designer bedrooms, leather contests and tickling conventions, foot fetishism and diaper play. There's nothing else quite like Kinkorama: a witty, brainy, dirty book by a connoisseur of kink.

 

Zoektocht van een masochiste

Sirona
Zoektocht van een masochiste : een intiem en persoonlijk boek over de zoektocht van een jonge vrouw binnen de wereld van het masochisme
Z.pl. : Sirona, 2006
isbn: 90-8539-265-9
Zoektocht van een masochiste is een intrigerende waargebeurde roman in dagboekvorm. Sirona is een rasmasochiste die de beleving van het sadomasochisme op latere leeftijd ontdekte. Een intiem en persoonlijk boek over de zoektocht van een vrouw binnen de wereld van het sadomachisme. Op integere wijze en in directe bewoordingen vertelt zij hoe een nieuwe wereld voor haar opengaat en hoe dit haar leven beïnvloedt.

 

Kaleidoscope

Slater, Constance S.
Kaleidoscope : Sex, Healing and S&M
Upper Montclair : Constance Enterprises, 1997
isbn: 0-9629204-5-2
Woody Allen made the film All you ever wanted to know about sex, but where afraid to ask!. This journal, Kaleidoscope, is similar in nature, but instead will attempt to approach many of the questions readers might have about the origin of their sexual predilections, compulsions or obsessions related to any particular fetish. Constance S. Slater hopes that the reader will find clarification to many of the questions they wanted to ask about fetishes, but were afraid to even think about. This journal includes her own experiences and point of view, as well as questions and responses from 'Li Chen', a spirit entity who was once a Tibetan Buddhist Monk. His responses to Slater's questions are channeled through Jocelyn Graef, a lifelong psychic.

 

Rope Bondage

Smith, Scott
SM/Tech 03 : Rope Bondage ; Precision and Persuasion with Rope
Las Vegas : Nazca Plains Corporation, 2006
isbn: 1-887895-03-5
Rope Bondage : Precision and Persuasion with Rope is a live presentation of Rope Bondage by Scott Smith and includes two different demonstrations on DVD and a book. What you will find inside this book are pictures taken during the bondage demonstration, an edited transcript of the presentation and amplifications in the form of added commentary found in the narrower column and the photo captions. There are also some added special features.

 

Toy Bag Guide

Spectrum
The Toybag Guide to Hot Wax and Temperature Play
Oakland : Greenery Press, 2004
isbn: 1-890159-57-3
A 'workshop in a book' on hot wax and temperature play, including: types of wax and candles; fact and fiction about hot wax; dealing with body hair; the 'Vat Out Of Hell' and other special wax techniques; playing with ice and other temperature tricks; first aid and safety issues.

 

Princess Spider

Spider, Princess
Princess Spider : True Experiences of a Dominatrix
London : Virgin Books, 2006
isbn: 0-7535-1039-1
Secret dungeons, private parties, 5-star hotels or suburban semis: the locations may change... Spike heels and second skins of leather, or court shoes and designer dresses: the outfits may vary... Cruel Mistress, Office Manager or Aunty: the roles may differ... But one thing always remains the same: her complete mastery and your submission. Princess Spider, a celebrated female dominant in the UK fetish scene, reveals for the first time extraordinary true stories from her private and public domination of both men and women, and explores the secrets, the mystery and the strange power of female domination that lures her slaves back time and time again. Princess Spider will take you on a tour of the role-playing, dress-codes, rituals, equipment, playrooms and dungeons of this bizarre sexual underground, and into the minds of the sexually submissive via unprecedented access to body slaves and their diaries. Spider's bizarre web of female domination never fails to fascinate or shock. And, ultimately, it will arouse more than mere curiosity.

 

It's Only a Game

St. Clair, Lindi and Pamela Winfield
It's Only a Game : The Autobiography of Miss Whiplash
London : Judy Piatkus Publishers, 1992
isbn: 0-7499-1171-9
Lindi St. Clair, or Miss Whiplash as she is better known, is Britain's most talked about - and most listened to - prostitute. Whether she is campaigning for her Corrective Party, fighting for causes such as the decriminalisation of prostitution, or being forced to pay tax on her 'immoral' earnings, Lindi always makes the news. Big, sexy and funny, Lindi admits to being an extrovert nymphomaniac who loves her work. But behind the Miss Whiplash facade, there is a practical businesswoman who talks a lot of sense and commands admiration and respect.

 

Fetish

Steele, Valerie
Fetish : Fashion, Sex, and Power
New York : Oxford Press, 1996
isbn: 0-19-509044-6
Kinky boots, corsets, underwear as outerwear, second skin garments of rubber and leather, uniforms, body piercing... Today everything from a fetishist's dream appears on the fashion runways. Although some people regard fetish fashion as exploitative and misogynistic, others interpret it as a positive Amazonian statement - couture Cat Woman. But the connection between fashion and fetishism goes far beyond a few couture collections. For the past thirty years, the iconography of sexual fetishism has been increasingly assimilated into popular culture. The concept of fetishism has recently assumed a growing importance in critical thinking about the cultural construction of sexuality. Yet - until now - no scholar with an in-depth knowledge of fashion history has studied the actual clothing fetishes themselves. Nor has there been a serious exploration of the historical relationship between fashion and fetishism, although erotic styles have changed significantly and 'sexual chic' has become increasingly conspicuous. Marshalling a dazzling array of evidence from pornography, psychology, and history, as well as interviews with individuals involved in sexual fetishism, sadomasochism, and cross-dressing, Steele illuminates the complex relationship between appearance and identity.

 

Intimate Invasion

Strict, M.R.
Intimate Invasion : The Erotic Ins & Outs of Enema Play
New York : Greenery Press, 2004
isbn: 1-890159-51-4
Klismaphilia - enema play - is one of the last taboos of kinky sex, yet this style of play can be erotic, intense and safe. M.R. Strict, an experienced practitioner whose expertise and enthusiasm have been shared by hundreds of thousands of online devotees, shares some of his hottest and most outrageous personal enema experiences (with men and women, gay and straight). Between the anecdotes, he explains the psychology, physiology and safety issues of using enemas as a disciplinary scenario, part of a medical role-play, preparation for other forms of play or simply as exciting foreplay. The first book that explains how to bring the thrilling yet forbidden practice of klismaphilia to your own bedroom!

 

Enless Knot

Styranka, Mathew
Endless Knot : A Spiritual Odyssey Through Sado-Masochism
Toronto : Insomniac Press, 2001
isbn: 1-894663-10-1
Bay Street clerk by day, fetish slave by night, Endless Knot is the autobiographical story of one man's spiritual journey through Toronto's underworld of hard-core sadomasochism. Growing up in Saskatchewan, Mathew Styranka spent much of his youth trying to integrate his submissive sexual passions and his spiritual yearnings. After moving to Toronto to pursue Zen meditation, he found release instead in the world of fetish and sadomasochism. His struggle to find spiritual and physical satisfaction rested in finding the Mistress of his dreams, a woman he thought would complete him through her domination. But when fantasy became reality, Styranka discovered that his true self lay somewhere between the desires of the fetish and the reflections of the mind.

 

Over 100 S&M Tips

Sussman, Lisa
Over 100 S&M Tips
London : Carlton Publishing Group, 2008
isbn: 1-84732-201-8
Over 100 S&M Sex Tips helps you explore your own submissive or dominant nature - wether you like to give pain or receive it, this book offers exciting ways to explore the world of sadomasochism, Here you'll learn the basics and more, from how to get started and safety advice to imaginative ideas that range from role play to bondage. Wether your urge is to be mistress or pupil, strapped to the bed or holding the cane, there's something here to bring a jolt of electricity to your love life.

 

Female Domination

Sutton, Elise
Female Domination : An exploration of the male desire for Loving Female Authority
Napa : Lulu Press, 2003
isbn: 1-4116-0325-7
Elise Sutton examines the prevalent male desire to be dominated by a woman. She explores from a psychological perspective why men have submissive desires toward the female gender, where these desires originate from, and how this common male fantasy reflects what is transpiring within society, as women are becoming more liberated and independent. Sutton reveals that Female Domination is a large tent with many forms, expressions and lifestyles contained therein. She takes the reader into the personal and intimate lives of forty couples, who are not unlike your family members, the people you work with or the people you socialize with, yet who practice different variations of the Female Domination lifestyle. Some couples like Female Domination to be soft and sensual, some like it hard and rough, some like it wild and trend setting, some like it romantic, some like it untraditional, some like it primarily in the bedroom, and some like it both inside and outside the bedroom. Through the experiences of others, Elise Sutton depicts how the Female Domination lifestyle can build a bond of intimacy, defuse arguments, relieve stress, transport sex to a higher level than just the physical, empower women in society, and inject excitement into the mundane tasks of life such as household chores. She portrays how Female Domination can satisfy the inner male child, build up a woman's self-esteem, add spice to the bedroom, re-ignite romance, and cause a power exchange within the female/male relationship. Elise Sutton examines how society is evolving toward Female rule, one relationship at a time.

 

The FemDom Experience

Sutton, Elise
The FemDom Experience
Napa : Lulu Press, 2006
isbn: 1-4303-0464-2
Experience is the knowledge or practical wisdom gained from what one has abserved, encountered, or undergone. An experience is the proces of personally participating in an activity, event or lifestyle. Fantasy does not always translate over to reality because reality must contend with the bodily limitations of the physical world, whereas fantasy enjoys the unlimited boundaries of the imagination. Therefore, an actual experience may not match the expectations of the fantasy. Nevertheless, fantasy is often the product of reality. For one person's fantasy is another person's reality. In her book Female Domination : An Exploration of the male desire for Loving Female Authority, Elise Sutton examined the prevalent male desire to be sexually dominated by a woman. Now in The FemDom Experience, Sutton further examines the Female Domination lifestyle by once again taking the reader into the personal relationships and sexual practices of everyday people who live astonishing secret lives.